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Student story: Prioritizing location in the college search

A student shares their experience of attending college far from home. They mention the benefits of gaining independence and focusing on personal growth. However, they also discuss the challenges of missing family and not being able to help during difficult times. The student's mom supports their decision to pursue education away from home.

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- Well, I'm a very independent person. My mom raised me that way. It was me, my mom, and my little brother forever, and so I was used to take care of other people, so I wanted to go somewhere where I didn't have to take care of other people or feel obligated to do so, because I'm so far away. So that's a good thing, because I can just worry about myself, and I had so much freedom to work with that it was just amazing, because I was so far away. But I do tend to miss my family, and there was a couple times when my mom had some accidents, so she may have ended up in the hospital, and those things are really hard for me, because I'm so family-orientated. And so not being able to reach out, not being able to help my brother with that math class, it's kind of hard to see, like, my family struggle a little bit without me being there, but I know that, and my mom always encourages me that I'm making the right decision and bettering myself being far away for four years and then deciding what I want to do afterwards. So it's hard, but then again, it's not as hard as I thought it would be initially.